Counselling for Young Adults
Figuring out adulthood can be a lot.
Young adulthood can come with a lot of expectations. You're supposed to know what you want, make good decisions, manage your responsibilities, build relationships, and somehow figure out what you're doing with your life.
But real life isn't usually that straightforward.
Maybe you're overwhelmed by school, work, relationships, or expectations. Maybe you're struggling with anxiety, confidence, motivation, or your sense of direction. Maybe something from the past is still affecting you. Or maybe nothing feels particularly “wrong” — you just know that something needs to change.
You don't have to have it all figured out before asking for support.
At Sholinder Counselling Collective, we provide counselling for young adults with a warm, collaborative, practical, and strengths-based approach. We'll start with what's happening, figure out what matters to you, and work together to find tools and strategies that fit your life.
Frequently Asked Questions About Counselling For Young Adults
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There isn't one reason someone decides to talk to a counsellor.
Sometimes there's a specific problem you'd like help with. Sometimes several things have been building up. And sometimes you can't quite put your finger on what's wrong—you just know that something doesn't feel right.
Counselling can be a place to talk about:
Anxiety, stress, and feeling overwhelmed
Depression, low mood, or changes in motivation
Emotional regulation and difficult emotions
Self-esteem and confidence
Friendships and relationships
Dating and romantic relationships
Family relationships and boundaries
Identity and figuring out who you are
ADHD and AuDHD
School, work, and academic pressure
Difficult or traumatic experiences
Self-harm or suicidal thoughts
Substance use
Feeling stuck or unsure what comes next
Sometimes several of these things overlap. You don't need to figure out exactly what your experience fits into before reaching out.
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Counselling isn't about being told what you should do or having someone else figure out your life for you.
Depending on what you're hoping to work on, sessions might involve talking through something that's happening, making sense of patterns, working through a difficult relationship, learning practical strategies, or figuring out what you want to do next.
Some sessions may involve a lot of talking. Others may focus on a particular situation, skill, or goal.
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You don't need a diagnosis or a perfectly organized explanation of what's happening.
Maybe you don't feel like yourself. Maybe everything feels overwhelming. Maybe you're stuck in a pattern you don't understand, or you know something needs to change but aren't sure where to start.
Those are all reasonable places to begin.
Part of counselling can be figuring out what's going on together.
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Young adulthood can involve a lot of change at once. You might be starting school, graduating, beginning a career, moving away from home, changing relationships, becoming more independent, or trying to figure out what you actually want from your life.
Sometimes the challenge isn't one particular thing. It's everything happening at the same time.
Counselling can give you space to slow things down, sort through what's happening, and figure out what matters to you. You don't have to have your whole future figured out before you start.
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Finding a counsellor who feels like a good fit matters.
You may have had counselling before and found it helpful. You may have felt like something was missing. Or you may simply be looking for a different kind of experience this time.
Different counsellors bring different personalities, experiences, approaches, and ways of working. It's okay to ask questions and take some time to figure out what feels right for you.
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You don't have to be certain before reaching out.
A free 15-minute consultation gives you a chance to ask questions, talk a little about what you're looking for, and get a sense of whether counselling with us might be a good fit.
You don't have to make a big commitment. You can simply start with a conversation.
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Our counsellors have different training and ways of working. Depending on the counsellor and what you're looking for, counselling may draw from approaches such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Narrative Therapy, Drama Therapy, or Strengths-Based Counselling.
You don't need to know which approach you need before you reach out. Your counsellor can help you understand what they offer and work with you to find an approach that makes sense for your goals.
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Young adults aren't all looking for the same thing, and counselling isn't one-size-fits-all.
Our counsellors bring different backgrounds, experiences, and therapeutic approaches to their work. What we share is a commitment to counselling that is genuine, collaborative, practical, and strengths-based.
We'll start with what's happening, what you'd like to be different, and what might help. From there, we'll work together to find tools and strategies that fit your life.
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You don't need to figure this out on your own.
Our counsellors work with different ages, concerns, and areas of focus. Explore their profiles below to learn more about who they work with and how they approach counselling.
If you're still not sure where to start, a free 15-minute consultation is a good place to begin.
Find a Counsellor Who Works With Young Adults
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Kim Sholinder, MC, RCC
Founder | Registered Clinical Counsellor
Online and by phone across Canada | In-person in Victoria, BC
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Carmel Mohebati
Counsellor
Online and by phone across Canada | In-person in Victoria, BC.