Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
Understanding the patterns that keep you stuck — and finding new ways forward.
Sometimes our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours can get caught in patterns that leave us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or discouraged.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a practical, collaborative approach that looks at the connection between our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. It can help you understand these patterns and explore different ways of responding.
At Sholinder Counselling Collective, we use CBT-informed counselling to help people make sense of what they're experiencing, develop practical strategies, and work toward changes that matter to them. CBT can be adapted to the individual, so the focus isn't on following a rigid formula. It's about finding approaches that make sense for you and your goals.
Frequently Asked Questions About Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a practical approach that looks at the connection between our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours.
Sometimes these can get caught in patterns that leave us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or discouraged. In CBT, we look at what's happening and explore whether there are different ways of understanding or responding to a situation.
The goal isn't to force yourself to think positively. It's about understanding what's going on and finding approaches that may be more helpful for you.
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CBT gives us a way to slow things down and look more closely at what's happening.
We might explore what you're thinking in a particular situation, how you feel, what you do in response, and what happens afterwards. From there, we can look at whether there are patterns you'd like to change and try out different ways of responding.
What we focus on will depend on you and what you're hoping to get from counselling.
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CBT can be helpful for a range of concerns, including:
Anxiety & Stress — when worry, stress, or anxious thoughts are getting in the way of everyday life
Depression & low mood — when things feel heavy, motivation is difficult, or you're finding it hard to enjoy things
Emotional Regulation — when emotions feel difficult to manage or reactions aren't always what you want them to be
Identity & Self-Esteem — when you're struggling with self-confidence, self-worth, or how you see yourself
Difficult or repetitive thought patterns
Life Transitions — when you're adjusting to a significant change or trying to figure out what comes next
CBT can also be adapted for concerns such as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and Trauma & Complex Trauma. The approach will depend on what you're experiencing and what you're looking for from counselling.
CBT can be adapted for different ages, communication styles, and circumstances.
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CBT tends to be active and collaborative. We won't just talk about what's difficult — we'll also look at what might help.
Depending on your goals, a session might involve talking through something that's been difficult, noticing connections between thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, learning or practising a strategy, or trying a different way of responding to a situation.
You may also spend some time between sessions practising a skill or noticing what happens when you approach something with your new tools.
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Not necessarily.
Some people find it helpful to practise a skill or try something between sessions. This might involve tracking, trying a different approach, or noticing what happens in a particular situation.
If we use activities between sessions, we'll talk about why we're doing them and make sure they feel useful. It's not about getting your homework “right.”
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There isn't one set length of time for CBT.
CBT is often used as a focused, shorter-term approach, but how long counselling takes depends on what you're working on, what you're hoping to change, and how things are going along the way.
We'll check in about your goals as we go rather than assuming from the beginning how many sessions you'll need.
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Not necessarily.
CBT often focuses on what's happening in your life now, but that doesn't mean your past is off limits. If earlier experiences are relevant to what you're dealing with now, we can make space to talk about them.
What we focus on will depend on what you're looking for from counselling and what feels useful to you.
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CBT may be a good fit if you're looking for a practical approach and want to better understand some of the patterns behind what you're experiencing.
You don't need to know whether CBT is the right approach before reaching out. We can start with what's going on for you and figure out together which tools and approaches make sense.
Find a Counsellor Who Uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
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Kim Sholinder, MC, RCC
Founder | Registered Clinical Counsellor
Online and by phone across Canada | In-person in Victoria, BC
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Carmel Mohebati, CCC
Clinical Counsellor
Online and by phone across Canada | In-person in Victoria, BC.